The last time I picked up my pen to seriously write an essay was some years back and I have held back on writing for a while. It has in fact been a long while. I have even destroyed some of my well-thought through writings to destroy some memories. (I regret it a little.) So history may be reinvented. (That's what I thought.) At least there's no supporting evidences. I have not put writing as a priority therefore I have not been touching much of it. Finally I am missing it after reading another of Murakami's work, Norwegian Wood. This is my third Murakami book. Why do his works attract me? I guess I find his writings very absurd but not impossible to happen. Someone said to me that a good author understands human behaviour quite well. Did Murakami write to please? In certain ways, the protagonists in his books are ordinary human beings. Their emotions are rational and predictable because as a reader, I listen to the protagonists' train of thoughts. However, just like when I have finished the Wind-Up Bird Chronicle (WUBC), I felt like I didn't really know the protagonist at all and what he did was really out of the world. I remember how I felt when I started on the first few chapters of WUBC - I couldn't stop reading but as I approached the end, I didn't know why it ended that way. It is good for me though as it is unlike many other books that have predictable endings. The takeaway for me is that life is full of uncertainties and ambiguities; sometimes things just aren't as clear as you want them to be.
When I was young (in upper primary), my birthday wishes were similar. It was to have many friends. That could be due to the fact that I am an only child and may feel lonely at times. Thanks to my best friends (you know who you are), I seldom feel lonely. I can easily identify who my best friends are. They are people I would ask for opinions on important decisions I have to make, meet relatively regularly (at least bimonthly, quarterly) for chit-chat and my life would have been very different without them. According to Robin Dunbar , in order to maintain stable social relationships where an individual knows who each person is, and how each person relates to every other person. Friends are essentially different from acquaintances. Acquaintances are typically: #1. People whom you may have only met a few times at an event/function; #2. Classmates/schoolmates/coursemates you have encountered casually; #...
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