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Nat & Pam

23rd September 2020:

This was the day that I gave birth to Mendell.
Let me zoom in to what I want to share regarding how I feel about Nat as this page is dedicated to our marriage.

After Mendell was delivered and handed to Nat and I, we were able to appreciate him for a few moments before I started vomiting profusely from the side effects of the epidural administered to me.
At this point, Mendell was to be brought to the labour ward.  Nat was requested to accompany Mendell.
I saw Nat's hesitation and that he wanted to stay with me but he had to leave as the doctors and nurses were not done with me in the operating theatre.
I clarified with Nat later whether I was reading him correctly and he said that there were many nurses taking of Mendell, while I appeared to be in discomfort and needed him.
I am very touched because I find that Nat's love for me is immense.
I never want to forget this so I am recording it here too (on top of my personal diary).

Love,
Pam













Together since 28th August 2011 @ 0530hrs. :)

Engaged on 28th July 2012 @ 2105hrs! :))

Married on 11th January 2014. 

xoxo, Pam

(More of our photos at https://www.natpamlife.com/)

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