Pam's Blog (Life, Marriage & Parenting)

It's finally the last day of 2009. This year has been a really eventful year for me. What I have accomplished:- 1) Volunteer for animals & environmental welfare organisations 2) Investment plan 3) Travel with friends to Bintan 4) Macbook 5) Spend more time with family 6) Organise bedroom frequently Goals for 2010:- 1) Attend church regularly 2) Tithing 3) Savings 4) Allowances for family 5) Weekly exercise routine 6) Read the news daily 7) Begin tuition business planning 8) Study in Unisim in July 9) Visit San Francisco with friend 10) Learn more skills @ work e.g Marketing, sales, accounting & public speaking 11) Be more punctual 12) Update blog weekly 13) Learn Driving and/or Skydiving 14) Better fashion sense 15) Improve in Guitar & French 16) Vegetarian twice weekly (Tue & Thurs) 17) Organise room regularly 18) Monthly family time 19) Volunteerism 20) Improve in drawing Goals in Summary: P atience A dventurous Heart M aturity A man's wisdom

Hady, my tuition kid will be starting his learning journey in Primary School on 4th January 2010. It has been a joy teaching him. I shall see him for more lessons next year! :D Pam Petite

Had my 1st Horse Riding Session today, 27th Dec '09! It was fun, memorable & a heart-pounding experience for me! Hadn't really have a good grasp of the basic as yet. However, it was really encouraging as the man (Mr Laif) who helped to guide the horse (Annabelle) which I was riding on said to me, "The thing that I like about you is, you never give up." Thanks Mr Latif! That was so encouraging. :) After which, I met up with my dearest Yu Han! Had our usual great conversations! We always feel a sense of contentment chatting with each other :D By the way, the images of Annabelle, the sweet horse I rode on kept appearing in my mind. I like riding on you Ann! Hope that you're treated well & nicely. God loves you! Hope to see you & Mr Latif again! Pam Petite

Christmas 2009! Christmas Gifts! Yohoo~ Thank you :) Charade: (Seriously, I can't remember what was the word) Should be something horrid :s Dance? Guess What I'm Trying to depict? Clue: Action Number of letters: _ _ _ _ (4) Pictionary! All Play~ Us Playing Happily :) Unglam Moment <3 At Airport Terminal 2 Swensen's Gift Exchange from Gab Eunice, Bf & Friend + Me Poly Clique & Co. When the clock struck 12, I was @ the park nearby my flat stroking a lovely cat! :D HR & I Thank you all for sharing this wonderful Christmas with me! I really appreciate the time spent as it felt both reflective & nostalgic... This Christmas reminded me a lot about the past - who I used to be & certainly reminded myself of who I have became - how life's experiences have shaped me & how I revisited square one; and how I felt about it. Christmas is truly about God. Christmas isn't Christmas if there is no JESUS. God, thank you for everything. Thank you for blessing

Stubbles + Dreadlocks = My Kinda Guy as at 21st Dec '09 I guess this statement is pretty true. It took me about 3-4 years to decide to tell him that I still love him... Telling him was just to let him know my feelings towards him... Months later we got together, it felt strange because I thought fate has departed from us. Destiny must have heard my cry and let me have a second go at this love. Unfortunately, now we're once again apart from each other. Sometimes I felt that I held on to the memories with him so tight because he was my first love. Many times I have thought myself to be a fool and felt that things have been a little unfair. He was my dream guy and I don't think I was ever his dream girl. After all, I was not his first love. Moreover, I don't have much to offer. Day after day, I watch memories play over my brain's eye, uncertain to feel remorseful or to tell myself to move on... Yeap, I know it has been a while now. God just help me. Pam Petite

Avatar! Best movie of 2009 thus far as voted by me :) MV Doulos There's books on board! Read more here On the ship Bestie & Me! Happy Birthday to you, Xue Ying! May all your wishes come true & I hope to celebrate your special day yearly till we're both 80 years old! :) Love ya always, Yanning Pam Petite

At the ticket booth for "Power up a Christmas Tree" outside City Square Mall on Sunday, 13th Dec. Proceeds from paddling on the Christmas Tree carriage goes to Singapore Environment Council (SEC) :) As one paddles in the carriage, the lights encircling the carriage will light up. It was to raise public awareness and educate how important it is to conserve energy (go green), not forgetting to encourage people to inculcate good conservation behaviour. Apologies for the lack of pictures of the Christmas Tree & carriage... I didn't bring my camera around and didn't have time to snap some pictures too. Hope today you'll make the decision to save the earth! Pam Petite

This afternoon, dressed in my swimming costume, I went to dip myself in the swimming pool and stood reading my novel for a good 40 minutes, oblivious to my surroundings. After reading about 10 pages and being mildly baked under the sun; in the midst of tall office buildings, I decided to join my fellow colleagues for lunch. I can't explain why I felt so happy and energetic after that. :) ~ It is now many moons later. I want to change and improve my life. As I deem easily observed -I've been trying to engage myself in various activities, in the hope of attempting to get pass the cry-your-heart-out or in my scenario, keep-it-mum-and-look-like-it-didn't-matter-much stage. How I wish I can just drink up and let go? Seems like age is defining my actions... I didn't attempt to drink up, go clubbing, indulge in shopping sprees nor eat to my heart's content. I believe it's because I have been there and I felt totally wasted. There won't be a possibility of m

Hello, I like this series of pictures a lot as it showcases my besties & me! We met up for dinner to celebrate Gillian's belated birthday! I always enjoy my time with these girls! Love you girls always! *hugs* Pam Petite

My Favourite Picture of the Day! Jia Feng Jie, I miss you soooo much! :) Don't you just love Mr & Mrs Bear? :) 12.12.09 Danny & Ariel's Wedding @ All Saints Church Cute Wedding Cake for display Cupcakes The Sisters & The Happy Couple :D While waiting for time to pass us by... Wedding banquet dinner was a few hours away... Relaxed @ teadot! Conversations conversations... Have to mention Jia Mian... You are a brother whom I can connect with even if I haven't seen you for a long time! I always remember how we met - Xue Sheng Ying! Will try to stay in touch from hereon... Take care all! xoxoxo, Pam Petite

teadot! Brought Wayne out & he took his first sip of Cookie Monster's Fav :) Cozy Nest Love Happy's look here :D Pam Petite

At Kenny & Sharon's Wedding with colleagues Edited picture of myself @ the solemnization! I like the "antique" effect :) The very jovial newly wed! :D Love Mrs Kenny Ang's smile! Isn't she beautiful? Kenny serenaded his wife-to-be with a lovely melody! Awesomeness ^_^ ~ I really appreciate Kenny, my colleague for inviting me to his wedding! One of the most important events of his life! From my heart, I wish you & your wife, Sharon a lifetime of happiness & close walk with God. ~ It's so amazing... Kenny & his wife have been together for about 12 years! That is the longest period of dating before marriage that I know of. God is without a doubt present in this relationship & blessing these two people who truly love & delight in Him. Throughout the entire wedding ceremony, it was very evident to me that their love for God & each other is so genuine. This is the kind of love that I desire. :) ~ I guess Jason Mraz said it best in hi

Movie Stubs - Organised Mummy's Birthday! The Ladies! It was Mum's Birthday on Saturday! Had a whale of a time chit-chatting with my folks! Broke the news to them that I have plans to study starting from the 2nd half of next year! Really glad for their mutual approval! :) Love & appreciate my parents :D Pam Petite