July & Life is about Choices

The month of July has insofar been well spent with my loved ones. :))
I feel absolutely blessed to have my close and best friends around me!

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Life is about Choices

I believe that everybody chooses the kind of life they want to live. A happy and fulfilling one or a sad and self-pitying one. My wish to all my readers is that if you are holding a grudge against someone (especially people who used to be very close to your heart), let the unhappiness fade slowly; engage in activities which makes you smile, pick up a new skill and think happy thoughts (though it may be hard). As time goes by, even though you may not forget the past but you have made good use of your time, you learn to see the bigger picture and eventually you may even learn to forgive others and yourself.

To sum it up:
Live, Love, Laugh! :D

I've just came across this article on my facebook news feed and I would love to share it with you here:
A father's message from beyond the grave.

Pam Petite

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